Some people equate bigger ministries with the level of spiritual maturity.
Does serving in greater capacity necessarily insinuate that a person has an intimate relationship with God?
No.
There are scores of cases where pastors and leaders fall. Some do not even have close family ties with their children. Why is this so? More often than not, they are too caught up with ministries such that they have no time for personal moments with God and their own family.
Relationship with God and ministry are not supposed to be deemed as one. The danger comes when we link them together.
What happens when we are busy with ministries?
The result is analogous to what would happen when we are too busy with our work/job.
We begin to read and meditate on Scriptures FOR THE SAKE of preparation for teachings in ministry. We prepare everything for ministries. But we forget to prepare ourselves. We do not have personal time with God to reflect on our lives.
Joseph Chean (Base Director of YWAM Singapore) once said, ‘Ministry does not sustain our inner life. Only two things do. Obedience to God regardless of the circumstances and taking time to reflect on our life.’
Some may say, ‘When I give myself to serve others in ministry, God will renew me.’ Bible reference: ‘he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed.’ – Pro 11:25 (NIV)
Yes, it’s true. But it is only true when you have something to give.
He who has love gives love unto others; he who has wealth gives wealth unto others, and the list goes on.
What about a poor man who is able to give his money unto others? He who gives the money, in fact, gives out of love/compassion, which he first has it.
What’s then, the underlying principle of giving?
We give what we have. For we cannot give what we do not have.
If we try to give when we have nothing much to give, it only leads to human works and we eventually end up feeling burnout.
I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.
- John 15:5 (ESV)
Here, Jesus is saying to His disciples that they need to abide in Him (remember His love and grace) in order for them to bear fruit of love.
By this my Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit and so prove to be my disciples. As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love.
- John 15:8-9 (ESV)
Here, Jesus is saying to His disciples that in order for them to prove to the world that they are His disciples, they are to show love. Where do they get the strength to love? From the Father. As the Father has loved Jesus, Jesus loved His disciples. Thus, as Jesus loved His disciples, they are to love others.
This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.
- John 15:12 (ESV)
Can we truly love others by ourselves?
The answer is No.
We need to have the love of God to love others. But we cannot give the love of God to others unless we first experienced His love. That’s what makes ‘Abide In Him’ so imperative.
We cannot give what we do not have.
This marks the reason why ministry must flow out of our personal relationship with God. It is not ministry that builds our relationship with God!
Sometimes, we observe new believers serving in a few ministries and we feel so encouraged. We deem that the new believers are doing well in the Lord. Nevertheless, that’s just our own human gauge and perceptions.
If a new believer doesn’t have time to grow in the Lord and ground his feet with strong foundation, yet he begins to start serving and getting involved with ministries, the time may come when he simply experiences burnout.
Without first experiencing a loving relationship with God, how can he pour out God’s love to others? This kind of love is based on what we call ‘works’.
Yet many serve because they are asked to serve, or simply following others, or feel that there is a need in the ministry.
Some may say, ‘But there is a need for me to help with the ministry. They do not have enough manpower.’
The need to feel needed actually shows how much a person thinks God cannot do, instead of acknowledging Him as the true Provider who will and is able to meet all the needs out of His glorious riches.
When we look at Jesus’ ministry, His primary focus was not to meet all the needs of the people. It was to do what the Father wanted Him to do.
‘So Jesus said to them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of his own accord, but only what he sees the Father doing. For whatever the Father does, that the Son does likewise.’
- John 5:19 (ESV)
‘For I have come down from heaven, not to do my own will but the will of him who sent me.’
- John 6:38 (ESV)
Jesus withdrew from the crowd, instead of ministering to everyone who was in need. He knew that He was just a human and he couldn’t possibly meet all the needs. He needed to be renewed by the Father through personal time and prayer.
‘But now even more the report about him went abroad, and great crowds gathered to hear him and to be healed of their infirmities. But he would withdraw to desolate places and pray.’
- Luke 5:15-16 (ESV)
Our doing must come out of our being and this boils down to knowing God first.
‘Then they said to him, “What must we do, to be doing the works of God?” Jesus answered them, “This is the work of God, that you believe in him whom he has sent.” ‘
- John 6:28-29 (ESV)
The more we know God, the more we will believe in Him.
Knowing God always comes first.
Jesus’ ministry was born out of His relationship with the Father. The eleven apostles’ ministry only started after spending three years plus with Jesus. Apostle Paul’s ministry did not begin until he returned from Arabia after a period of time.
‘But when he who had set me apart before I was born, and who called me by his grace, was pleased to reveal his Son to me, in order that I might preach him among the Gentiles, I did not immediately consult with anyone; nor did I go up to Jerusalem to those who were apostles before me, but I went away into Arabia, and returned again to Damascus.’
- Gal 1:15-17 (ESV)
The early apostles understood how important it is to know God first.
Jesus answered, “The most important is, ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ The second is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’
- Mark 12:29-31 (ESV)
The Lord is one. Loving God comes before loving others. Without the vertical relationship of the Cross, we cannot have true horizontal relationship of the Cross.
This goes the same for transformation of lives. Without us getting transformed in our own lives, we can forget about transforming the lives of others. Revival starts with ourselves first.
Kris Vallotton (Senior Overseer of School of the Supernatural Ministry and Senior Associate Pastor of Bethel Church in Redding, California) said, ‘We can teach what we know, but we can only impart who we are.’
For I long to see you, that I may impart to you some spiritual gift to strengthen you.
- Rom 1:11 (ESV)
Apostle Paul wanted to impart to the Roman Christians some spiritual gift. But he first, had it himself, so that he could impart. If not, it would simply be knowledge, instead of impartation.
Without personal growth and intimate relationship with God, we can forget about imparting life and spirit unto others.
Our God is a jealous God. If ministry comes before relationship with Him, we are but under the sin of idolatry.
“You shall have no other gods before me.”
- Exo 20:3 (ESV)
Some may say, ‘Yes, God must come first, so ministry must come first before family and friends.’
My question is, ‘Isn’t God a wholistic God? What makes us think that God is not present when we’re building relationship with our family and friends? Is not family and friends a ministry? Is there a separation in God’s kingdom?’
It is very important, therefore, not to mix ministry with our relationship with God. With this, there is a separation. ‘Love God and love one another.’ This speaks of relationship with God and relationship with others (this is every other thing which we call ‘Ministry’).
Our ministry must flow out of our personal relationship with God.
Having said this, I do not mean that we should only focus on our relationship with God. The key after knowing that ministry flows out of our relationship with God is the word ‘Balanced’. While we serve others, we should not neglect our own walk with God. The key is knowing that our personal walk with God must take priority.
‘Should we carry on serving as much when we are feeling burnout?’
From my personal outlook, we should take a break and get renewed by God. I don’t mean that we stop everything that we are doing, but we can simply reduce the capacity of our ministry.
More often than not, what really leads to burnout is due to our inability to balance between our relationship with God and ministry. We get involved in every activity. We think that we should be there.
Sometimes, we need to learn how and when to withdraw.
Jesus did not get involved in everything. He knew when he needed to withdraw and spend moments of solitude with the Father. If not, He would suffer from burnout, for He was manifested in the form of human flesh at that point in time.
Therefore, we need not be involved in every activity for the sake of being there or to support others, unless God tells us to do so. But Singaporeans do have the ‘kiasu’ attitude that they must go and mark their attendance!
‘If I’m not there, it shows that I’m not committed!’
Well, we need to understand that by going there, it doesn’t make us any more committed. For God searches our heart and mind to know what kind of attitude we have when we go.
A committed person is a responsible person. A responsible person needs to learn how to take care of his personal walk with God, even if it means to give ministry, activities or events a miss.
Commitment to our relationship with God must come first; not commitment to activities/events. If God wants us to build on our relationship with Him and skip the doing, what say should we have?
Do we even ask God if we should go for the event?
Many experience burnout because they do not learn to withdraw. They continue to keep going, even when there are signs of weariness.
Sometimes, burnout isn’t really a bad thing. We learn to rest and reflect and build on our personal relationship with God. God may allow it to happen, because we did not obey Him in the first place!
‘But we need to bring more people into the kingdom of God. We must press on!’
Yes, evangelism is important. But there is no necessity to feel needed. The closer we are to God, the more He can use us to impact many lives and bring them into His kingdom. In fact, God’s primary purpose for us is not evangelism, but to know Him personally. That is the highest call of our Christian lives – Worship.
I have been to different Churches on a regular basis. Some Churches are very prophetic in nature and they focus alot on intimacy with God. On my personal viewpoint, they do lack evangelism.
On the other hand, some Churches are very evangelistic in nature and they are considered as mega Churches. But they lack intimacy with God. Numbers, in fact, are not an indication of good spiritual growth.
Multi-level marketing (MLM) companies grew rapidly with huge numbers of employees at a certain point in history. Yet many of them did not sustain. Why?
Quantity doesn’t equate to quality.
I know of one organisation which has a good balance – intimacy with God and evangelism/discipleship (ministry). There is so much to learn from.
Evangelism must come out of worship. The Cross represents the balance. Vertical side is worship; horizontal is evangelism and discipleship.
If we only focus on worship, it’s like Jesus who remains at the throne of the Father without coming down to earth to do the horizontal part.
If we only focus on evangelism/discipleship, we are no different from social organisations and community centres.
Jesus first has His relationship with the Father before He came down for evangelism and discipleship. Though His ministry was always effective, it was seemingly inefficient.
Effectiveness comes out of worship.
His intimate relationship with the Father brings out effectiveness. When He prayed on the sick, they received healing; when He preached, many came to know Him. When He delivered, captives were set free, etc. Why? Obedience. He did what the Father told Him to do.
Was His ministry seemingly inefficient? Yes. He could spend the day simply to minister to one person – the Samaritan woman in Gospel of John chapter four. But He knew that by being effective, it induced great efficiency.
‘Many Samaritans from that town believed in him because of the woman’s testimony.’
- John 4:39 (ESV)
Nowadays, we are doing the opposite. We try to be efficient, but not effective. We want to win souls and begin to focus on evangelism, etc.
In fact, effectiveness is the key to having efficiency, not the other way round.
Look at how Jesus’ discipleship has a multiplication effect which started from 12 effective disciples. When Jesus ascended to heaven, He had a total of 120 disciples.
‘In those days Peter stood up among the brothers (the company of persons was in all about 120).’
- Acts 1:15 (ESV)
On the day of Pentecost, another 3000 were added. Then it grew to 5000.
‘So those who received his word were baptized, and there were added that day about three thousand souls.’
- Acts 2:41 (ESV)
‘But many of those who had heard the word believed, and the number of the men came to about five thousand.’
- Acts 4:4 (ESV)
Look at below.
Looking at the early Church’s effectiveness, time taken to reach 120 disciples is about 3 years. Supposed that each disciple has 12 disciples (taking away the fact that the early Church grew to 5000 within a short span of time).
120 disciples x 12 = 1440 disciples
1440 x 12 = 17280 disciples
17280 x 12 = 207360 disciples
And the list goes on…
How about our current approach towards efficiency?
Supposed that the time taken to reach 120 disciples is 3 months.
120 disciples x 12 = 1440 disciples
Due to the lack of intimacy with God as they are asked to disciple others within a short period of time without first building a strong relationship with God, we supposed that some backslides; some waver in faith; some are indifference to the Kingdom of God, etc… About 50% (An estimated figure. See report below) are left, which is 720 disciples.
720 x 12 = 8640 disciples
4320 (50% are left) x 12 = 51840 disciples
25920 x 12 = 311040, which is in fact, 155520 disciples
And the list goes on…
In the long run, we will see that quality brings quantity.
Efficiency doesn’t necessarily mean effectiveness. Rather, effectiveness brings efficiency. Instead of focusing on the speed and quantity, we should really centre our focal point on quality first – Relationship with God.
Report by Bob Unruh
WorldNetDaily
January 16, 2009
Half of Americans who call themselves “Christian” don’t believe Satan exists and fully one-third are confident that Jesus sinned while on Earth, according to a new Barna Group poll. Another 40 percent say they do not have a responsibility to share their Christian faith with others.
Because of the need to be efficient, we start serving as much as we can and we get involved with everything that is possible to advance the kingdom of God. Unknowingly, we begin to compare the capacity of serving as a benchmark for spiritual maturity. We think that we are doing more than others and we are better. We become ruled by the Singapore system instead of God’s statutes. In the end, we fall into the trap of our enemy, Mr. S.A. Tan.
Yes, we do more, but we become less of who God wants us to be.
‘Does serving sustain our relationship with God?’
I guess the answer is obvious.
May God help us.
Source:
1) Barna Poll
http://virtueonline.org/portal/modules/news/print.php?storyid=9775
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